Let's start with the fact that it's in childhood we encounter the painful, frightening reality of being ourselves and the restrictions on our desires. We lose connection with our true selves.

Your parents overlooked your needs. With the best intentions, they insisted on their point of view, effectively making you their property.

You faced emotional or physical abuse, the death of loved ones, alcohol, or drugs.

This all interferes with the present.

During the first 14 years of my life, I was subjected to all forms of violence in my parental home.

I was about 5 years old when I could articulate and tell my mother 'the older brother is bothering me' (it was about sexual violence).

Mom said something to Dad, Dad said something to my brother...

The next day, when I was left alone at home with my brother again, I regretted both my ability to speak and the fact that I was born. No one helped me.

Back then, I didn't know that it was just the beginning and that the worst was still ahead of me...

When you're walking home from school, you're not wondering if it will be bad, but exactly what kind of bad awaits you at home... and you have nowhere else to go.

At 9 years old, I ran away from home, but the police returned me without investigating the situation. At 11, I made my first suicide attempt.

I know all about emotional and physical pain. I learned to cry silently for years, to be afraid and to remain silent. Silence was what I mastered best. To stay silent and endure. My faith that this was all not for nothing and Eminem's music saved me.

Only after finishing school was I able to escape to Moscow. I enrolled in university to study psychology and help myself. But my problems didn't end there.

Post-traumatic stress disorder, astheno-depressive syndrome, dissociation, eating disorder, borderline personality disorder, migraines, panic attacks, and other consequences of my experiences haunted me for a long time.

I hated myself. There was no effective treatment. Continuing my search for a solution, I went to psychologists, psychiatrists, healers, studied tons of literature, and attended therapy sessions. All this helped just enough to keep me from dying.

This means that you have to open up and let a stranger into your life. You must bare your soul to them, revealing the darkest and most unpleasant moments of your life, ones that you've even hidden from yourself all along.

You meet once or twice a week. The digging begins — into the most painful and frightening issues. Layer by layer, you peel off the bandages you've used all your life to patch up your emotional wounds.

Therapy can last for years, and the places where you've peeled off the bandages may bleed and hurt, filling your present with pain.

Finding 'your' specialist is a huge problem and a separate kind of suffering. Only a psychologist who has successfully gone through a similar experience can truly understand and help effectively.

Exactly, the ease of becoming a psychologist today can be problematic. Some individuals obtain their diplomas after just two months of courses. These 'specialists' may lack the necessary depth of training and experience to effectively address and help alter the underlying causes of destructive emotional states.

Living for others when inside there’s a scorched black hole from the past is incredibly hard. Thoughts of death flicker through the mind. Additionally, the global situation only adds stress.

Eventually, there's a breakdown, everything collapses, and you find yourself returning to therapy because you can't manage on your own anymore. You take antidepressants and continue to rip off the bandages...

The medications numb your soul, you feel NOTHING. Things get a bit better, but after some time another piece of the past falls away, and you are overwhelmed with pain anew. It seems like there is no end to the suffering.

Most will remain in their own hell. But not you, you already know what to do.

'Why should I believe you?'

I'll be honest — I'm not one of those gifted individuals for whom everything comes easily or who have had a moment of enlightenment.

I have walked this path myself, and now I can say with certainty that the path of suffering does have an end. After 20 years of hard work and searching for answers, I found the '13 Steps'.

One technique instead of many years of ineffective therapy.

Thanks to the '13 Steps' method, I have achieved harmony and happiness without struggle, without the need to constantly delve into and relive the past for years.

All areas of life become balanced. Solutions are found for business problems, relationships with family and children improve, and alcohol and drugs leave my life. Self-love arrives, along with healthy relationships with others.

For years, I couldn't form healthy relationships, lived for my work, drank at least a bottle of wine every evening, and on weekends, I used substances more serious than alcohol to relieve stress.

Now, I have moved to Cyprus.

I engage in scientific research and have the time and energy for myself and my hobbies. I work for a few hours a week, only with those I personally like and want to help, making my work enjoyable.

What is the essence of this method?

And how can you change your life in 41 days?

Since 2005, I have been searching for an answer to the question: Is it possible to cure post-traumatic stress disorder, depression, and panic attacks, and live a full and happy life without antidepressants?

After extensive and challenging work, I developed the '13 Steps' method in late October 2020, which addresses these problems. How does it work?

1. Eliminate All Fears: This involves changing your perception. The past holds us back and drains our energy because we view it negatively, filled with resentment and pain. Once you change your perception of the past, the powerful force of negativity transforms into present-day joy and love.
2. Restore Trust: To change what has been ingrained by parents, society, and various beliefs and programs, you need to regain the trust lost in childhood — trust in yourself and the world. This is fundamental. Without trust, nothing works.
3. Set New Algorithms: If you were to be placed into your dream reality from your current one, you wouldn’t be happy. You’d go mad with anxiety and fear because this new world is unfamiliar and unpredictable to you. You don’t know how to act there. You need to gently and gradually integrate new algorithms of perception, reactions, and behaviors to be ready for your new happy life.

'You know what the main problem with those who do like everyone else is, don't you?'

They dig into the symptoms and try to treat them, instead of addressing the root causes. The result: a lot of money and time wasted, leading to disappointment, despair, and pain.

You end up feeling guilt and shame for not being able to cope and not being able to live your life on your own terms.

What sets the '13 Steps' apart from what everyone else does? We don’t work with separate pieces; we work on the whole. And most importantly, there is no need for you to delve into the details of your personal life. You can ask me any questions you want. If you prefer, you can remain completely silent about your past. This is a solution for many men who want to solve their problems without feeling weak and vulnerable.

You’ve probably heard about Alcoholics Anonymous and Narcotics Anonymous. They follow the 'Twelve Steps' program, an international self-help program developed in the 1930s.

The essence of the program is based on faith in God and the fear of relapse. A person must always work the steps, attend group meetings, and communicate with a sponsor. The idea is that they do this for life, otherwise, they may relapse (which is true, as the program itself doesn’t eliminate the root cause of the addiction). So, people are in recovery for life.

You can often see posts from Hollywood stars on Instagram or Twitter saying, '12 years in recovery'. For example, posts from Eminem.

So, even people with unlimited resources and opportunities don’t have a solution. It’s very hard to live under such tension and fear for a lifetime, which is why many relapse.

This is precisely why this unique technology is called the '13th Step', as it solves all these problems. We eliminate all fears, build trust, and organize a happy life here and now.

I made this method accessible because every person has the right to happiness and freedom. With my experience, I simply couldn't stay silent and not help others.

I spent over 50,000 Euros and 20 years on my therapy and education. That was my investment. Ha-ha, I didn’t know that when I was going through it.

In my desperation, I tried various techniques, methods, and specialists. There were countless times when I felt the ground slip from under my feet as I realized that even the best specialists in Russia didn’t have the expertise to help me.

Only thanks to my experience and knowledge was I able to create this unique mechanism that has brought happiness and harmony to me and thousands of my clients worldwide.

Yes, many of us are familiar with that feeling of despair and pain when a new specialist or method fails to deliver the expected results. I’ve been through this many times myself. That’s why, when I finally found an effective method, I decided to create an online product to make this method accessible to everyone.

In private practice, it’s often observed how people create idealized versions of their past. Many don’t realize that their past experiences can be classified as abuse and think, 'I don’t have such serious problems, so I don’t need this'.

Even if there was no extreme violence in your life, it doesn’t mean your freedom wasn’t violated by your parents, leading to the incorrect formation of personal boundaries. People often underestimate the influence of various family dynamics, whether it’s a relationship with a cold mother and an overly strict father, or an overly caring mother and an absent father.

This can result in you not noticing how others violate your boundaries, use you, or manipulate you, repeating the cycle of self-betrayal. All this becomes a habitual environment, a comfort zone for your psyche.

In addition to my specialized education and experience as a consultant, I hold a black belt in suffering and addiction. No psychologist in the world has the experience that I have. I am a unique specialist. It's now impossible to get a private session with me, which is one of the main reasons I created this online product.

'I don't need help' — this is a thought that many people might have. It's important to understand that our approach is not about making anyone feel weak or vulnerable. Our method is designed to help you discover new aspects of yourself at each stage, to feel your uniqueness and strength. It's a journey to transform your fears and shadow sides into strengths and the beauty of your personality.

And finally, the main question:

'How can I learn all of this?'

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